So, I’m writing this post on Monday!! What the what?? The funny thing is just because I’m writing this post on Monday, doesn’t mean I couldn’t forget and not post it today. Seriously, it has happened before.
But I will post today. I started this journey of Mindfully Mondays for this very reason: to be more successful in blogging consistently.
Currently getting lost in Spotify and I need to get ready for work but here is my post for today. I may or may not have a part 2 later when I think of what I would actually write about today!
Over the last week, I did manage to create a tentative schedule for January. I’m thinking Mondays and Wednesdays. I’ve also been reading on and learning to be more mindful.
That being said, I am thinking of making Mondays ‘Mindfully Monday’. How and in what sense? I’m not exactly sure. I know I have issues I want to work through mentally. I have anxiety and depression. I have attention and focus issues.
I want to be able to function more fully in the moment and with those around me in my personal and professional life.
That means that I need to be more mindful.
Mindfulness is a practice that involves being fully present and engaged in the current moment without judgement. It’s about cultivating awareness of your thoughts , feelings, and surroundings, which can contribute greatly to improved mental well-being.
— ChatGPT 3.5 Response to “In the sense of mental health, what does mindfulness mean?”
It makes perfect sense. I spend too much time lost in anxious spirals. That’s not living in the moment, engaged with those around me. I can’t live like that anymore.
Mindfulness, to me at least, goes a little further. I need to be mindful of my writing self and my creative self as well. I need to write every day. I need to make it a daily habit to write every day.
I won’t be blogging every day, or at least I won’t be setting that as a goal as to keep myself from getting burnt out but I will be writing every day.
Now, that doesn’t mean that if I have a blog post inside of me that needs to be written and it’s not a Monday or a Wednesday that I won’t write it.
Absolutely not! I will write that blog post and post it. I will write that snippet and pocket it away until I have more to it.
I have to be the person that I want to be. I have to be the person that I am destined to be and a person that is so anxious and depressed that he can’t fully function and have successful relationships is not the person I want to be.
When I have an idea, I need to write it down. Whether I’m at work or home or where ever. If I’m driving, I need to have a way to dictate my ideas.
I’m trying to stay hopeful that I can keep this momentum and positivity going forward and on into the new year.
It makes me think of Peter Pan and how he flew off to Neverland, into a new world of amazement.
I want 2024 to be my year. I want 2024 to be our year! I want to take a little extra cash at the beginning of the year and get my passport. I want to travel with them. I want to create with them. I want to make a good life with them.
I’m not exactly sure where I wanted this blog post to go but I got an inkling of wanting to write a post and decided to just grab my iPad and write one.
That’s it! It was when inspiration strikes me, I need to snatch the opportunity and get to creating.
I mean, just starting to write, I wandered slightly sideways to the path of Neverland and that makes me think of Alice in Wonderland which I love because I associate it with Yvonne and some good times in my younger years.
Now, that doesn’t mean that I should only wait until inspiration strikes to do anything. If I constantly do something creative, whether I’m inspired or not, it can lead to other things.
I’m learning or remember really because we learned this in school right, how to take one thing and then branch off… I want to say that is sort of like the snowflake method. Some reason I want to associate it with ‘something-spider’ or ‘spider-something’ but maybe that’s something else entirely.
But anyways, I’m going with things better. I’m taking one little smidgen of an idea and then running with it and seeing where it goes.
Maybe this is my ADHD as a benefit because I can discover new things.
Oh and speaking of discover, I think Star Trek Discovery is starting new episodes fairly soon and I know I saw earlier or last night that SVU is starting new episodes soon too!
Work schedules being what they are, I usually don’t get to see the shows when they air but that’s okay.
I’m losing the point of this blog post again but anywho, I’m learning to branch out from one idea and into something else. I’m learning to embrace imperfection. I’m learning that I don’t like it when things don’t go my way. That’s okay. I have to learn to be able to handle that I only have control over certain things.
I would love to have a tiny laptop. I am currently sitting outside or rather I was and now I’ve moved back inside but I got to looking on EBay and they have an 11 inch Lenovo laptop for $70 and that’s not bad. I wouldn’t imagine that it’s that heavy being that it’s only 11 inches.
Dinner is almost ready. Maybe I’ll come back and write more later!
I wanted to write a blog post today but as I sit here, my fingers on the keys, I really couldn’t think of what to write or anything. All I could think of was the little jingle Happy Holidays that Robyn used to say back at Albertsons all those years ago.
The holidays are coming up. We just finished Thanksgiving last week and Christmas is coming up in a couple weeks. Then New Years.
November and December always used to be such a magical time for me. I always loved to write during the winter time and the ‘ber brrrr’ months.
Now, that warm, fuzzy feeling is gone. Well, maybe GONE is too strong a word but it’s gone more often than it’s there anymore.
But I want to get that feeling back. I want to get off work and come home, grab by notebook and write. I want to have ideas all the time again. I want to sit with the boys and they do their thing and I write.
I want to day dream about my characters and my stories and my worlds again. I want to doodle about my worlds and the places in it!
I want to have that ‘kid waking up on Christmas Morning’ feeling again. I used to use the Sims to create homes and such for characters. I need to do that again.
I need to …
Lol I don’t even remember where I was going to go with this blog post! I left it the other day on my IPad but it didn’t sync to my phone so I couldn’t access and it got left behind for work and everything and I am just now getting back to it!
Well, I think I’ll leave it exactly as it is. An unfinished piece and that be that! I need to embrace imperfections!!
Even now, writing this blog post, I don’t even know where to really begin or anything.
My writing has been pretty much non-existent for so long now. I want to say that I have no idea how to get myself writing again but I do. I need to start writing.
I need to just start w/riting. I can. I know that I have the ability to write. So why don’t I write?
I don’t write because the little voice in my head tells me that I can’t. It tells me that I am no good. I’m an imposter if I think I can write like the other writers I see online and in the bookstores.
The little voice that tells me that if I write, I’m being selfish. I should be doing something more productive instead of writing stupid stories.
But are they stupid?
NO! My writing is not stupid! I may not write what everyone else is writing. I may not write what everyone else wants me to write but regardless of any of that, my writing is valid and worthy of being out there in the world right along everyone else’s.
Now, that being said, while I try to get my creative writing mojo back in action, I’m thinking of going back to my roots as far back as my earliest writing in fan fiction.
When I started writing, it was horribly written Star Trek fan fiction. There were so many Gary Stu characters that it was cringe worthy. Then I moved on to slash fiction in the Buffyverse with Angel and Xander and the writing was, let’s say better.
It wasn’t great by any means but it was better. It was also slash fiction that got me writing my own original fiction in the first place.
So why not go back there and see if in writing something familiar I can’t spark that same creative passion again and reignite the fire again.
Stay tuned and let’s see how this writing experiment goes!
The biggest question I am facing right now as I look ahead to Preptober 2023 is:
What do I hope to gain from this month of Preptober and NanoWriMo this year?
What do I hope to gain from Preptober? I hope to gather together an outline of some sort for a 50,000 word draft of a novel. I hope to gather together a better understanding of myself and more importantly, my writing self.
I hope to create a daily writing routine that I can freely transform when needed to fit into whatever day I have work—wise.
What do I hope to gain from Nanowrimo? I hope to continue the daily writing routine I create during Preptober to create a somewhat “readable” first draft of some kind.
Is it possible? Of course it is. I’ve done it before. I’ve struggled the last few years because of this, that, and the other but I want this year to be different. I’ve had too many years recently where I have let negativity and setbacks get in my way.
Why can this year be different though? Because I am going to prioritize me and my time. I’m going to prioritize taking time in my office if need be. I’m going to prioritize taking time away from the house if need be.
I have to prioritize me to bring myself back into a more centered person!
What are you going to work on this month for Preptober? What are you planning for Nanowrimo? Let’s hear it in the discussion below!
Today is almost over and I’m just now posting! It was a day! My anxiety and depression got the better of me today! I don’t like it but it does happen and tomorrow is a new day!
I’m ready for a day off. I was off today but I have my overnight shift and it always makes my Tuesday off a weird day because I wind up having to sleep most of my day off.
Tomorrow I have a busy day with my baby! Swimming 🏊♂️ and sushi 🍣!
How is preptober going for you? Let me know in the comments section below!
So, how did day 2 of this year’s #preptober go for you?
I was at work most of the day so I didn’t really get anything accomplished other than percolating ideas in my head.
I know it’s going to take more than that if I want to participate and win Nanowrimo this year. I’ve just been in a weird funk the last couple days and I have got to shake it.
Tomorrow is a new day. Today wasn’t all that great. I felt like I was going to be sick all day. I felt tired and thirsty. I think I was dehydrated!
Tomorrow I am not going to have any energy drinks and I’m going to drink more water!
Tomorrow is a new day! Stay positive and keep moving forward!
So there are only 5 days left until July’s Nanowrimo session! Are you ready? Do you have your outline finished? Are you pantsing it? Do you have any kind of idea of what you’re going to do for the month at all?
If you’re like me, you’re probably putting it down to the very last minute on what you want to work on for the month. I have no idea. I have a project I have worked on in Nanowrimos in the past but never finished and I’m kind of thinking about that for the next month as well.
But I also wonder if I should just start something new and different from what I’ve already been working on in the past. I’m in a completely new place in life. Things have changed so much over the last few months and I’m definitely not the same person that I was before.
So I don’t know. I know I need to figure something out for the month because there are only a few days left. I’m off on Tuesday. Maybe I’ll use that day to get a better idea of what I want to do for the month.
But regardless of what I am going to work on for the month of July, I am going to have fun with it. I am going to get out of the house and go write at coffee shops again. I am going to go to Balboa Park like I always wanted to do with Richard and I’m going to sit in the grass and write.
It would be so easy to just let myself fall away from anything that I enjoyed and just sink into a darkness and not come back out of it. It would be so easy to succumb to the negative, sad thoughts that are already floating around in my head. I can’t let myself do that though. I have to pull myself back up and start to enjoy life again.
Richard may be gone but he will always be with me in my heart. He would not have wanted me to stop living life. He would have wanted me to go on to do great things. He would have wanted me to pursue my writing because it was something that always brought me great joy. He would have wanted me to share my work with the world.
While publishing is not something I will most likely be doing any time soon, it still might be in my future.
But for now, I need to figure out what I even want to write about.
Where are you at in your #preptober month? Have you settled on an idea for a story? Have you outlined or are you going to fly by the seat of your pants and just hope for the best? Let me know in the comments section below!
Happy Writing Everyone and have a great week to come!!
Today was a pretty stressful day at work but I made it through it. I always do. I buckle down and I get shit done and I get through the shift. Even when an eight hour shift feels like a 16 hour shift or longer, I still get it done.
But I got home about 15 minutes ago and I need to get in bed because we’re going to a Father’s Day brunch in the morning but I needed to get a blog post done first. I really do need to start writing each and every day again.
Even if it is just a short little blog post, I need that creative outlet to help get me back to my old self.
When I got off work tonight, I drove past mine and Richard’s old apartment building and maybe I shouldn’t have because it made me sad but it wasn’t too bad tonight. I got sad and I talked to myself as I drove down the familiar road to the highway but once I got out on the highway and was heading south to my home with Juan and Brian, the sadness lessened.
I know that it’s only been a few months since Richard passed and that it’s still all fresh wounds and all but I am hopeful that given time it will get easier.
I know that I will never, ever forget Richard. He’s all around me. Music was a big thing for him and I’m surrounded by either music playing somewhere at any given moment or I’m surrounded by his vinyl collection as I sit in the lounge and write.
So I will never forget him but maybe it’ll get easier to handle things and maybe I can be a little less triggered all the time.
It helps a great deal to have two wonderful men in my life that love me and want me to be happy. They understand loss and sadness just like anyone else and they help me any way that they can and if it weren’t for them, I wouldn’t be here today. I honestly don’t know where I would be.
But I might not be where I am now, that’s for sure.
They also encourage me in my writing. They gave me a space all of my own in the lounge, surrounded by not just Richard’s vinyl collection but Juan’s as well and his stereo setup also. It’s nice to have a space all to myself.
In mine and Richard’s apartment, I had somewhat taken over the little dining room area that we had as my writing space but the tall, bistro style table that we had was just too high for me and it just didn’t flow the way that I wanted it to.
And that was fine. I was content to make due with what I had but it sure is nice to have a little dedicated space of my own here that I can sit and write.
There’s just over 10 days left until the beginning of July’s Camp Nanowrimo session and I really need to be planning and prepping for that. I have no real idea what I am going to write about but I’ll get it figured out a little bit better before the month is over. I might just gather up as many ideas as I possibly can and then that way I have a bunch of different things I could work on for the month.
I’ve done that sort of thing in the past and it has kind of worked and then not worked. I just don’t want to burn out but I am also not going to get down on myself if it doesn’t work the way that I want it to.
Anywho, I am having a hard time keeping my eyes open now so I think I’m going to get in bed.
How is June going for you? Are you prepping for Camp next month? Let me know in the comments section below!
I think I got like 2500 words for the month. Honestly,I think I’m rework my writing and the way I do things. I won’t lie, I don’t really write outside of Nano events. Which, I know if I want to really write and possibly be published one day, I cannot write solely during the Nano events. So I may have not written a whole lot this last month but I did write some and I’ve also come to some, for me, profound realizations!
Oh and I’ve also started reading again which I’ve kind of slacked off on since moving and working.
I’m learning to take time for my passions. Work can’t be all I do.
Thinking about the story prompt of taking someone from your every day life and making them into a character and or villain in your story!
It’s a very interesting idea and something I definitely might do! It very well might be a good therapeutic tool to help me work through stress and anxiety that I have due to certain people and situations at work.
I’m thinking this will be a really fun exercise! I might work on some ideas for this when I get home tonight!
How is #preptober going for you? Let me know in the comments section below!
Sitting here at work doing the annual sequel harassment and discrimination training. It’s funny, my direct supervisor is always disrespectful and rude.
I really don’t understand how he gets away with it. Others have complained about him before. Management knows about it. Yet he is still allowed to be rude and disrespectful. He makes it hard to want to come to work.
I do the best that I can and it never seems to be good enough for him.
Maybe one day he’ll be knocked down a peg and things will be better. He already talks about not wanting to work here forever and wants to go to school for something else.
I have no problem working retail. Sure the hours kind of suck but at least it’s only 8 to 9 hours a day.
I’m just looking forward to next month when I will be writing for Nanowrimo again.
To keep this post in line with writing topics, I give you this tip: If you find yourself stuck in regards to your writing, see if you can find a new place to write. Try getting out to a Cafe or a park. If getting out of your home is not an option, try making a little space for yourself in your home. Whether it’s in a dining room or a small corner of the living room, it may help to recharge your writing and creative energies!
Having to work overnight tonight so I spent the better part of the day sleeping. When I did get up, my Windows 10 machine did some updates which caused the computer to not even be able to log in.
Seriously Microsoft, WTF?!
Finally got the computer up and running but had to reinstall all my programs and such. Really makes it hard to write if I can’t even use my computer!
Hopefully tomorrow will be a better day and I can at least get a little bit of writing/prepping done!
Today has been a good day! Got off work and now making turkey meatloaf with my honey! I hope it comes out alright. First time trying to make a turkey meatloaf and its cooking in the air fryer as well.
I think it’ll come out alright. So far none of our experiments with new ways of cooking have come out inedible so that’s a good sign, right?
I’m off work for the next two days and I am hopeful to get some writing done. I guess we shall see!
Writing has not been coming all that easy to me for the last few months and I hate it! I miss writing. I miss the enjoyment and adventure that writing gave me.
I need to get back into it but sometimes it just seems like I should just give up too. I hate that feeling. I would never give up completely on my writing but sometimes I just feel like quitting. I’ll get back to it at some point though.
Maybe I can just do some short writing on my alphasmart or my Chromebook tomorrow in the chair.
Today was my first day off after starting the new job! It was a nice day! I got some errands done. I spent some time on my own and I need to do it more often to keep myself.
I lost myself in my relationship with my ex and I cant let that happen now but I dont think that will happen. Richard encourages me to be creative and I love him for it.
Got 2 days of 10 to 6 shifts ahead of me. I’m hopeful that work will get easier as time goes on and I can get into the swing of things!
So I totally forgot to post my daily blog yesterday. I had it all typed up and ready to transfer from my Alphasmart to my computer but just didnt transfer it over.
That’s okay though. So there will be a post later for Day 2 officially as well as Day 3!
Today is the 1st day of May! The first day of my first full month of being a Sandiegan! I start my job day after tomorrow. It’s nice to have one thing I can check off my list!
Yay! I start my job Monday!!!
So, BEDMO! I am working on a new, self-created challenge for Blogging Every Day for MOnths! I really need a routine now that I am getting a little bit more situated with life in San Diego and having a somewhat set schedule for blogging each day will greatly help with that!
There will most likely not be a word count goal for each day except for maybe during April/July #campNanoWriMo and November’s Nanowrimo sessions!
Maybe once things get settled a little more (once I finish getting my driver’s license, car registered and insured in CA) I would like to get back into vlogging but that is definitely going to be something I look into on down the road a bit because there is just too much still to do.
My boyfriend and I need to quit smoking and we will be doing it together but it is still going to be a bit of a struggle even with the two of us supporting each other.
I’m sitting here in the living room watching Youtube videos while the boyfriend is napping before his birthday lunch/early dinner.
Whenever I feel lost or stuck with my writing/creative self, watching other writers on YouTube always helps get me back on course!
It motivates and inspires me to keep moving forward in my creative journey!
Part of my BEDMO challenge, I would also like to include a new photograph each day of just something from the world around me. Taking pictures, documenting my journey through life through words and photos has always been fun for me.
Bringing color and creativity into my life as well as those that follow me on social media brings such joy to my life.
My boyfriend is a big music lover and his sharing new music with me and those around us is so beautiful! Music can create such a beautiful picture in your head, just as writing/reading stories can as well.
I don’t think I could have found a more amazing man to have by my side on this journey of life! He encourages me to write and be creative and is always so supportive of my all endeavours.
Writing to music, whether purely instrumental or vocal, always helps me. It allows me to focus on my writing with music in the background to help drowned out the world and allow me to get lost in my writing. Have a boyfriend who has 1,500 records means I will never run out of music to write to!
The smile on his face when I ask him to come up with a 10 or 15 track playlist for a writing project brings such joy to my heart!
This new journey of my life is going to be so wonderfully amazing and I have a beautiful soul at my side as I travel on!
Well, I think it’s time to get dressed and then go and wake Richard so he can start getting ready for his little party!
To all my followers, I wish you a happy and beautiful day and month to come!
This month has been an up and down hectic mess but all in all things are good. I am still trying to get a job. I mean, at this point, the store has hired me but for some reason my paperwork is not going through correctly. I just went in and filled out a new application and hopefully it will get situated.
I would really like to get in there next week before Monopoly comes off but if I can’t, that’s okay. There are other things that are coming up too. Mother’s Day and July 4th etc. I just want to get back to work to be able to get some sort of routine down and such.
But all is good. Things are very positive.
I just hate not knowing for sure what’s going on. The store said that they wanted me to start next week and that’s great if we can get this paperwork to go through.
But I know that everything is going to be okay! Just gotta stay postive and keep moving forward. Going to take it all a day at a time.
I’m thinking May and June will be prep months for July’s camp Nanowrimo session. I would really like to get something written during July and possibly publish online just for fun. I’m not sure how I feel about officially publishing at this time. I think I need to get back to the fun and enjoyment of writing just for the fun of writing itself and not really think about publishing.
But I’m feeling better after jotting down this little journal entry!
Therapeutic Writing 