Today was a pretty stressful day at work but I made it through it. I always do. I buckle down and I get shit done and I get through the shift. Even when an eight hour shift feels like a 16 hour shift or longer, I still get it done.
But I got home about 15 minutes ago and I need to get in bed because we’re going to a Father’s Day brunch in the morning but I needed to get a blog post done first. I really do need to start writing each and every day again.
Even if it is just a short little blog post, I need that creative outlet to help get me back to my old self.
When I got off work tonight, I drove past mine and Richard’s old apartment building and maybe I shouldn’t have because it made me sad but it wasn’t too bad tonight. I got sad and I talked to myself as I drove down the familiar road to the highway but once I got out on the highway and was heading south to my home with Juan and Brian, the sadness lessened.
I know that it’s only been a few months since Richard passed and that it’s still all fresh wounds and all but I am hopeful that given time it will get easier.
I know that I will never, ever forget Richard. He’s all around me. Music was a big thing for him and I’m surrounded by either music playing somewhere at any given moment or I’m surrounded by his vinyl collection as I sit in the lounge and write.
So I will never forget him but maybe it’ll get easier to handle things and maybe I can be a little less triggered all the time.
It helps a great deal to have two wonderful men in my life that love me and want me to be happy. They understand loss and sadness just like anyone else and they help me any way that they can and if it weren’t for them, I wouldn’t be here today. I honestly don’t know where I would be.
But I might not be where I am now, that’s for sure.
They also encourage me in my writing. They gave me a space all of my own in the lounge, surrounded by not just Richard’s vinyl collection but Juan’s as well and his stereo setup also. It’s nice to have a space all to myself.
In mine and Richard’s apartment, I had somewhat taken over the little dining room area that we had as my writing space but the tall, bistro style table that we had was just too high for me and it just didn’t flow the way that I wanted it to.
And that was fine. I was content to make due with what I had but it sure is nice to have a little dedicated space of my own here that I can sit and write.
There’s just over 10 days left until the beginning of July’s Camp Nanowrimo session and I really need to be planning and prepping for that. I have no real idea what I am going to write about but I’ll get it figured out a little bit better before the month is over. I might just gather up as many ideas as I possibly can and then that way I have a bunch of different things I could work on for the month.
I’ve done that sort of thing in the past and it has kind of worked and then not worked. I just don’t want to burn out but I am also not going to get down on myself if it doesn’t work the way that I want it to.
Anywho, I am having a hard time keeping my eyes open now so I think I’m going to get in bed.
How is June going for you? Are you prepping for Camp next month? Let me know in the comments section below!
Happy Writing!!